It is said that failure is a catalyst. Failure is something which people see it as their biggest loss of life or biggest downfall. Honestly, if you ask me, failure is a stepping stone towards success. It is always said that failure is the opposite of success, whereas, if you clearly see, it is a part of it. Every step you take towards your success has huge hurdles and some failures too but does not mean that you have nothing to do more. You can learn from it, change your way towards the goal and find success.

Why can’t we take failure in a positive way? To the people who feel success is easy, crashes their self- confidence once they fail. It breaks down their enthusiasm and they start feeling that they cannot do anything. If you ask me, the fact is their ego is hurt to the extent that they cannot handle it. They must have shown their overconfidence to the whole world and now are afraid to stand the failure. Adapt and accept what has happened, learn from it and change your attitude. This is what will lead you to success rather than sitting in a corner and shedding tears or showing anger. Vent out your feelings, stand high, look up and move on to your next step or plan B.

Failure teaches perseverance, it makes you realize that failure is fatal. People should learn that failure is a lesson and not something to feel depressed about. Without being failed, you will not feel happy about your success later. Straight success can make you go egoistic; can make you feel superior from the rest. Sooner or later this attitude will show you the true colors and throw you down. Get over your ego, realize your mistake and amend them. Perseverance teaches you discipline. It teaches you not to let go of what you believed but to stay strong and achieve it with a different approach. Remember this, everything has a trick to deal with, but unless and until you understand the trick you will have to keep trying and accept failures. A person who wishes to become successful will not give up on anything, he will not quit if things get tough but they would rise up high to become a great success story.

Talking about successful people, they will take immediate action on what they think; they will not lay back and think of failures. They are ready to take risk or experiment on their product until they get the right work. They are focused on their goals and so they do not get shaken if they see failure. They are ready to accept and learn from their mistakes so as to come up with new ideas for reaching success. If such people would sit back and cry over failures we would never reach the moon. Keep your eyes open, use mistakes to succeed. Never feel afraid of “What If”, always keep an attitude of “Why Not”. You need to master your failure. You are the hero of your life, work in silence and let the success speak loud for you. Buying suggestions from people and blaming them later for the failure is easy, what is difficult is to stand for your own faults and accept that you were the decision-maker. Once you learn the beauty of acceptance, you will soon relish the power of success. Because in life, the question is not if you will have problems, but it is about how will you deal with it?

Let me mention a few great people who failed numerous times and are still ahead of all today.

J.K.Rowling, the author of Harry Potter, felt she was the biggest failure as she was jobless, a single parent, homeless and everything which made her life difficult to live. But today all of us know what great writer she has become.

Steve Jobs, unbelievably he was thrown out of his own company. He was fired and the dismissal made him passionate enough to get back to the CEO position at Apple.

Walt Disney, the creator of Mickey Mouse, a drop out from school, failed in several life achievements and was fired for not being creative enough. Can you imagine, if he would have taken this comment seriously we wouldn’t have got great childhood memories and still, the generations will be continued by the Disney entertainment.

Fearless Huffington had got rejected by 36 publishers but still today she is a great Greek-American author and a businesswoman.

Coming back to the truth, success is always pushed by failures. The attempt to accept and get over your mistakes will lead you to such great success and create life stories. Do not let success get to your heart and do not let failure get to your heart.

PS: Your desire to success should be greater than your fear of failure.