Celebration…
What for? Why? With who?
Don’t these questions come to your mind when we have to celebrate a day of your life? Let it be your birthday, an increment day, new job, promotion, friendship’s day, valentine’s day, etc, why do we have to stick to rules that any of these come, we have to celebrate with some set of people that we really do not want to, why is it that these specific days need a celebration?
None of us have an answer to these questions as we have made an habit of following what the world does otherwise we won’t be able to fit in their lives or even get close to their top list. Kindly ask your self, do you even need to get on the top of their list or do you really need to make your own list or set of those people whom you really enjoy with and feel close to or get peace while just sitting and doing absolutely nothing. Why do we consider only those specific days for special someone, can’t we just make them feel special even on an odd day without any occasion, without any reason just one simple day with them without judging them for any single thing that might have hurt you once because of them.
It is just not necessary to invite those who you don’t like or adore just because they are your family or close ones. Why spoil one day of your life behind those who do not even care or don’t bother about you. Due to society and other around us, we feel guilty and so we decide to talk to them, become friendly, act normal and they get another chance to feel proud of themselves as if they have reached heights and about to get a crown for being a so called nice human. It is not ethical in my eyes and will never be if I have to compromise on my self-respect and do things which I do not like or do not feel right.
PS: Anyone who wants to enter in my life, door is open…. Anyone who wants to exit, door is open too but kindly do not stand in the middle and create chaos.
