I choose this title from my recent experience about people having no sense of responsibility and that one should understand why is it necessary.
Why is it that people nowadays lack common sense and then tend to blame others about not been able to understand them? In any and every relation let it be with Parents, Partner, Friends or colleagues, everywhere we need to be responsible of what we do and how we act. One cannot just shrug their shoulders off saying that this is not the way we have been brought up or this is how we have been living all these years so we cannot change ourselves. In that case it would be better if you live alone rather than spoiling others life and surrounding. People who keep expectations from you is wrong and also you not understanding your own responsibilities is wrong.
At the age of 30 if someone cannot take care of their partner, parents and still dependent on them is foolishness and giving the name or blame the situations for years is just an excuse of not liking to do anything in life. Sense of Responsibility does not only mean by taking care of physical needs or financial needs, it is also about knowing your own self and focusing on what next or what if that you would like to achieve in future, future goals where you can analyse your worth and calibre. It is nothing to do with age and learning, in fact it is all about self-learning and self assessment which these day generation does not like to do. They prefer to sit home and while time away or just follow and obey what elders say irrespective of their own thinking or views.
One should always obey and respect their elders but not do only what they say or rather few are such kind of people who would obey them only up to their convenience otherwise they have the capacity to even rebel for such a thing which is against them for only that point of time. Standing for someone is secondary if you cannot stand for yourself. Screaming at top of your voice does not prove your strength but acting towards your goals and achieving them proves. As always said by someone that Actions speak louder than words!! Only dreaming will not take you to your destination, you need to work hard for it, not will words lead you there.
My only and Humble request to all those so called Matured people is that Please help yourself independently and grow in life rather than involving someone with no intention to change, adjust, or just by being what you are than acting fake just to impress. That will only spoil other’s life and give you no good.
Thank you!!
